While honesty is one of the best
characteristics for men, sometimes it is also the one hurts people the most.
Sometimes being straight honest is not that good in friendship or relationship.
Honesty could not be the reason of hurting others’ feelings. So, I mean when to
keep silence is also a skill of talking. I am not saying that being
straightforward is not a good thing. But think, if you know the consequence of
your words may bring, why don’t you say something after you really think about it.
I do know some great person that not very popular in her community. It is not
because that they are not nice or not kind. As their friends, I even feel
uncomfortable sometimes when we talk to them.
Learn about how to talk can really
help people. It’s not flattering or being obsequious. It’s about how to talk
appropriately and let people feel comfortable when hear you talking. It’s the art of talking.
Another thing I want to talk about
is the art of not talking. For the most time, we really don’t need to say everything in our mind out. Just like those
“I have a crush on your sister” in the video. Being quiet sometimes is a respectful
and caring behavior. For instance, if someone is going through a really tough
time, maybe go ahead and console him or her by saying something is not the best
choice. It could be very awkward. Probably at this time, cheer him/her up by
your behavior or your warm caring is the best support for them.
No comments:
Post a Comment